What Is Your Perspective?
Growing up I usually saw the glass as half full. However, during my teen years and early college years the glass definitely felt half empty. Instead of seeing that God could use my trials as a way to relate to others, I saw them as one more way in which I was different from other people.
Somewhere along the way that began to shift, I am not 100 percent certain when exactly, but it did. Maybe around the time I read Rick Warren's The Purpose Driven Life (a good book to read by the way, I highly recommend it) combined with Sarah coming to live with us. Either way I began to realize I could choose to focus on the negatives in life or I could choose to see the blessings. A funny thing happened...as I chose to shift my focus it shifted my attitude.
A good example is yesterday I got my left pointer finger slammed in between a dining room chair and the cushion. It hurt... A LOT! I could whine about how it hurt even now (it's a 1 on the pain scale really so I'd be a HUGE whiner if I whined about it, but stick with me for the purposes of this blog) however, I choose to be very thankful that I caught my pointer finger instead of my ring finger. You see I have permanent nerve damage in my ring finger, so what is manageable now on my pointer finger would hurt significantly more. I know this because I have had the misfortune of slamming said ring finger in a car door - it takes much longer for it to stop throbbing than my other fingers.
Another good example: We are currently a family sharing one vehicle. I could whine and moan and groan about how inconvenient it is. And believe me it is inconvenient on Sunday's if Chris works. Instead, I choose to focus on this is a great opportunity to focus on homeschooling and doing what I should be doing instead of what I like to do which is to run around and take mini-drives to explore. While that may not seem positive, it really is very positive, because it helps us focus on what is necessary instead of caving to temptation.
King David understood the importance of perspective. Continually in the book of Psalms as he laments, we see him turn his lament into praising God for his mercies and grace. King David quickly realized that without God his life would be nothing and instead of whining, he chose to praise God even in the storm.
How do you choose to view life? Is it full of looking at the negative side of things? Or do you choose instead to count your blessings?
I have found that counting your blessings while sometimes more difficult always seems to improve how I see life.
By the way something else happens when you choose to see the positive...you are less afraid of living your life.
I hope you all have a good week.